I can definitely relate to “enoughness”. I am reading a book called, Worthy. I have achieved quite a number of achievements always fighting that voice, you will never amount to anything.
Me fighting back: I’ll show you. N I did over n over… but it’s never been enough…
My husband is always saying to me; I wish you could feel what I see in you.
I came across a reel that was talking about self-confidence vs self- worhiness WOW what a wake-up call for me.
Self-confidence is outside of us n self-worth is inside of us. We need a healthy dose of both.
Lots of time and experience. And writing helps as well in terms of self-discovery. I think I would have felt that feeling of enough sooner if I had done more writing earlier in my life.
Would that we all could just touch the sort of enoughness you describe… Powerful.
You've helped me get closer than I ever could have imagined.
And I'm forever grateful.
It was inevitable for you. And it’s always already here… 😉
I can definitely relate to “enoughness”. I am reading a book called, Worthy. I have achieved quite a number of achievements always fighting that voice, you will never amount to anything.
Me fighting back: I’ll show you. N I did over n over… but it’s never been enough…
My husband is always saying to me; I wish you could feel what I see in you.
I came across a reel that was talking about self-confidence vs self- worhiness WOW what a wake-up call for me.
Self-confidence is outside of us n self-worth is inside of us. We need a healthy dose of both.
So I am working on my worthiness. 💗
Love the distinction between confidence and worthiness. I had never heard that stated but it totally resonates.
And I can also relate to not seeing myself in as good of a light as my partner sees me.
Thanks so much Julie.
Amen brother. This is one of the biggest struggles of mine, too.
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The good news is I think I've reached enough-ness. The caveat is it's taken me nearly all of my 62 years to reach it.
That’s beautiful David!
We all take our own time. I’ve tasted it but know I still have a lot of work to do.
Can I ask, what helped you get there?
Lots of time and experience. And writing helps as well in terms of self-discovery. I think I would have felt that feeling of enough sooner if I had done more writing earlier in my life.
Writing has done that for me too. Even writing this post shifted something for me.